When you fail to meet her dream and be the man she wants you to be, she gradually loses her love for you. But you must do something to win her back; do something to prove to her that you are her dream partner. Assume the figure and character she loves to have in her life.
1.Be productive: Women love men who make things happen; not those who wait for things to happen. They love to see you take decisions that would put things in their right places. They love to see you take the initiative: you should deal with problems that are there in your marriage or home. Why don’t you just become that man now? She would never be fulfilled if you do not give her the reassurance that you could be trusted to act when it is necessary. She must see you as the head just as it is meant to be.
2.Be loving: She had always wanted the man that would love her and show it in the way he treats her. While you were dating her, you showed her love and made her believe that the love would always be there. What has now happened to the love? Why is the love waning? Rekindle your love for her and you will win her back.
3.Woo her again: Be the same man who went for her love; the same man who asked her to marry him. Flirt with her; write her love letters occasionally and post them to her (let it be a surprise to her as she receives them). Hide some ‘I love you’ notes in the hand bag she takes to work or hide them in her pocket and let her discover them herself. This would make it look as though you are beginning to date afresh, with you being the suitor. This could really sweep her off her feet and bring her back to you. You could even compose love poems for her.
4.Take her out: She wants to be invited by her man for an outing, picnic or a date. Why don’t you just do that to remind her that you are still the partner she had always dreamed of?
5.Appreciate her: Women want their spouses to appreciate them. Tell her how beautiful she is, and how much you love her. Appreciate her for agreeing to marry you. Also appreciate her for taking good care of the children and the home. Present her with some gifts occasionally - wrist watch, bracelets, necklace, clothes, shoes; handbags, love cards etc. Compose some poems of appreciation for her.
6.Lead by example: She wants to see you lead by example: teach the family how to pray, study God’s word, love and care for others etc. Discipline the children when they go wrong.
7.Provide for the family: She also wants to see her man provide for the family. So take up your responsibilities and make all the necessary provisions for your family – food, clothing, accommodation, education, health care, etc.
8.Drop your pride: She would appreciate you more if you would drop your pride and say ‘I am sorry’ whenever you hurt her. She wants you to pet her and make the move for reconciliation whenever there is disagreement. Do that and she would gladly be your again.
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